*Write an encouraging letter to your younger self
Hey girl,
You are awesome and you are doing the best you can. You have achieved so much in your life. The courage you have had to move countries, twice, without having a real prospect of what you going to do or where you are going to stay. And now, look at you! You are well loved and appreciated in the company you work at. You have lovely apartment in a nice area. You have few really good friends you can count on. And your family always supports you, even with the crazy ideas of moving.
You have learned a lot about yourself in the last couple of years and you are continuing to grow and learn and improve yourself. It takes time, but its the journey and it will never become easier. But you fight through!
You are becoming more and more financially accountable. You have paid off your debt and won't be back in this situation ever again! You have saved some money and spending it on experiences that create memories rather than short term pleasure items. You own beautiful clothes and shoes and household items that you are proud of and that serve you! You have a style and grace about you!
You are fit and strong and keeping yourself in check with eating healthy and keeping active. It's been an up and down journey with the weight and looks, but you are finally here where you are happy and confident. You are part of community that cares about each other and fitness is big part of your daily life. Whether that means dancing all night, going on hikes, climbing or bouldering, you are spending your time being active!
You have learned and grown a lot within the industry and are managing yourself. It could be within a bar where you are a managing partner and operations manager, or/and freelancing as an operations/office manager at your own company. This allows you to travel to places you have always wanted to go - back to States, to Japan, Indonesia and South America.
You are amazing, and don't ever doubt yourself. Yes, there might be some hard times, but you always come out on top. There will always be a way! Make it happen! Go girl!